sex whilst pregnant: the lowdown

Let’s face it sex is always a fantastic way to spend a few hours (if we’re lucky), however, if we become pregnant, do we have to put the sex on hold?

It’s a question that concerns many women, but do not worry – we’re here to give you the answers you’re looking for.

just what the doctor ordered…

Let’s start things off by hearing from the medical professionals themselves. The NHS says:

“It’s perfectly safe to have sex during pregnancy unless your doctor or midwife has told you not to.”

So now that we know that the majority of us can, let’s debunk some of the following myths and discover the fun you can have whilst pregnant…

my partner’s worried what we’ll hurt the baby

This is a very common myth: that sex will somehow hurt the little one that you’re carrying. But it is just that – a myth!

According to the NHS having sex whilst pregnant will not hurt your baby, and they won’t be able to tell what’s going on. This means you and your partner don’t have to compromise letting things get spicy.

Neither a penis nor sex toy will penetrate beyond your vagina, so take comfort in the fact that you can remain intimate whilst being completely safe!

is it normal for me to be feeling this horny whilst pregnant?

Oh trust me, we feel you on this one! The hormones are high and the sexual cravings are feeling new heights.

It’s completely normal to be feeling a little (or a lot) hornier than normal when you’re pregnant, especially towards the end of the first trimester and beyond. So make sure you prepare your partner for some passionate outbreaks.

This is also a time to feel pleasure like never before as the increased blood flow to the sexual organs, breasts and vulva leads to heightened sexual pleasure. You can thank us later!

If you find the thought of sex whilst pregnant a little daunting, you can still satisfy your sexual needs solo. A cheeky toy or two never goes amiss and they’re also completely safe to use whilst pregnant!

will sex help me go into labour?

If you’re looking for some assistance with the process of going into labour, then sex could help.

Whilst it’s not the most effective way to get things going, it could assist other processes that are taking place in the body. It’s widely thought that an orgasm could get things going, however, there isn’t concrete proof that this is always the case.

At the end of the day, it’s down to your body, and when it decides it’s ready to go into labour. This is why sex at any stage of your pregnancy is still safe! However, if you want to give it a try and enjoy a few magical orgasms in the process, we’re definitely in support!

what positions are good for pregnant women?

We’re all different, and we’re all into varied things when the lights go down.

However whilst there’s not a ‘one move’ fits all for pregnant women, there are some positions we recommend that may make things a little comfier.

These positions include…

Sex Whilst Spooning – Because who doesn’t love a spoon? We recommend this move for pregnant women as it means you can lie down comfortably without placing any pressure on your back.

Cowgirl – It’s a classic! This position is fab, as you don’t need to put any pressure on your tummy.

From Behind – This position means you can bypass the tummy altogether. You can do this whilst standing and supporting yourself on the wall, or by opting for the classic doggy.

Have a play around and see what works for you and your bump!

my partner says they find me really sexy, are they just flattering me?

Erm, hello! Have you seen how gorgeous you are?!

Your ever-changing body is fascinating and beautiful because you own it. Whether your pregnant or not your partner is bound to find you mesmerising, and goddess-like as you house another one in your body.

The additional curves and growing parts of you also add for more intrigue, so embrace it and let your lover explore your pregnant body with confidence. If you’re looking for something sexy but comfortable to wear with your partner, have a look at our lingerie that comes in various sizes here.

revel in your pregnancy glow…

Now you have the complete lowdown on having sex whilst pregnant. Leave the myths in the fantasy books and allow yourself to have the fun you’ve been craving. Why not add a couple of sex essentials to your basket to assist you in the process?