what your friend in bed is really looking for

Ever wondered what your friend in bed is craving?

We’re always hearing tales of ‘what guys want’ and ‘what women find hot’, however, we’re often left reading the same old outdated answers.

In the modern world, people have become more open about their preferences and are changing with the times.

So if you want to know what your friend in bed is really looking for, then continue reading…

Consent

Before you let loose with one another, you want to make sure that you’re both on the same page. Things can escalate quickly when you’re feeling passionate, which is why it’s essential to check in with your other half.

Make sure that you’re both consenting and completely down for what’s about to come. Once you know the boundaries and sexual places that you are both prepared to go to, then you can really enjoy and worship one another’s bodies.

Confidence

I mean seriously, is there anything sexier than someone with confidence?

When you’re feeling confident and in control, it radiates off of you, and your partner won’t be able to resist that cheeky look you keep giving them.

Confidence in the bedroom comes in all types of forms. You want to be confident in allowing your bed buddy to know the things you’d like to explore and the things you don’t.

Never feel like you need to dampen your shine to adhere to someone else’s desires – you and your partner should always meet in the middle.

Do your thing, remain confident and keep that irresistible glow.

For You To Feel Sexy In Yourself

When planning a saucy sexual session we can often get into our own heads.

What would they like to see me in? What will they think of my body in a skimpy number? Are they even into the colour red?

Well pause right there – it’s not about ‘them’ it’s about YOU.

What do you want to see yourself in? What makes you feel gorgeous?

When you look in the mirror you need to praise the body looking back at you because it’s incredible and special. Your playmate wants you to feel as gorgeous as they know you are, after all you know your body better than anybody else.

So if you feel fantastic in a little lacy addition like this, then there is no doubt that they will be going wild for it too.

After all, when you’re on top your partner isn’t worried about what’s jiggling – if anything it turns them on even more…

Let Them Know What Makes You Tingle

Gone are the days of the awkward bedroom guessing work. In the modern world, our sexual partners want to know exactly what we’re after!

Kiss goodbye to their unexpected and non-sexy surprises, instead tell them straight up your turn-ons and turn-offs.

Once they know how to pleasure you, they won’t want to stop.

Moaning on a Monday doesn’t have to be so bad when it’s the result of some tantalising teasing.

Best get those sex essentials added to the basket…

They’re Interested In Your Loyal Toys

In the modern world, sex toys don’t distract from the action, they can actually emphasise the fun.

If you have one loyal pleasure pulser hiding in your bedside draw, why not introduce it to your sexual assistant?

Sex toys have a safe place in relationships these days and your partner in crime wants to know what gets you hot under the collar when they’re not there.

However, once you’ve given them a tour of your pleasurable tools, they will definitely want to try them out on you too – if you fancy it of course!

No need to thank us for the orgasms that are to follow…

Feeling Ready For Your Next Steamy Session?

We hope that we’ve opened your eyes to the things that your sexual partners really want. Everybody’s preferences are different, so just make sure to ask questions, treasure your confidence, and let the temperature turn itself up in the bedroom.